People decide to come out when the time is right for them; when they feel comfortable and safe. Sexual orientation is about emotional and physical attraction. You may have had sex with an opposite sex partner - that doesn't mean that you're heterosexual/straight or bisexual. You may have had sex with a same sex partner - that doesn't mean that you're lesbian or gay. You don't even have to have sex with someone else to know your sexual orientation. It's natural to ask ourselves questions about our sexuality and it's perfectly okay to take our time figuring things out. Talking to others who have gone through similar experiences (e.g. questioning, coming out) can help. There are a lot of available resources:

• Search the internet under lesbian, gay or bisexual.
• Call the Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Youth Project
  (492-0444)
• Pick up a copy of Wayves newspaper
  (call 453-3953 for circulation information)
• Check out gay/lesbian/bisexual organizations at universities