Sex, Alcohol & other Drugs
Sexual decision-making is never easy. There are many things that influence your sexual activities. If you choose to use alcohol and other drugs, your ability to make decisions about sex may be affected. To keep yourself safe, remember the following:
  • If your friends are pushing you to use alcohol and other drugs, they aren't good friends. If your partner pushes you to use alcohol and other drugs, this is not a healthy relationship. Remember, you have a right to make your own choices.
  • If you are drunk or stoned, you might have unsafe sex and put yourself at risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unintended pregnancy. If you have unprotected sex, or you can't remember what happened, get tested for STIs. You can take the emergency contraceptive pill (ECP) or Plan B® to prevent an unintended pregnancy. You can get ECP or Plan B® from a clinic, doctor or emergency room.  Plan B® is also now available from pharmacists.
  • Alcohol and other drugs can affect your ability to have sex and to enjoy it. For instance, you may have less vaginal lubrication, which can make sex uncomfortable or you may have problems getting hard. Also, you may throw up, which isn't very sexy!
  • Alcohol and other drugs affect your decision-making. You may have sex even if you wouldn't when you were sober. People might take advantage of you when you are drunk or stoned. Sex without your permission is called sexual assault. If you think you have been assaulted, call your local sexual assault centre or the police.
  • If you are gay, lesbian or bisexual, getting drunk or high won't make coming out any easier. If you need support, call a support organization. Remember you are not alone.
  • Sharing needles or other drug equipment can give you STIs such as HIV and Hepatitis B. Needles that are clean are safer. Don't share needles and drug equipment. Keep your needles clean.
  • Tobacco, alcohol and other drugs can hurt an unborn fetus. If you are pregnant, don't use them. If you are addicted, seek help.
  • If you need alcohol and other drugs to have sex, you might not be ready to have sex.

 

Here are some quick tips to help keep you safe:
  • If you do use alcohol and other drugs, set limits for yourself. Take care of yourself. Watch out for your friends who may be putting themselves at risk.
  • If you are going to have sex, remember to practice safer sex. Don't exchange body fluids like semen/cum, vaginal fluids, and blood. Always use a lubricated barrier such as a condom or dental dam. Choose less risky activities, like kissing or massage.
  • Protect yourself from date rape drugs. Don't drink anything you didn't open yourself. Never leave a drink unattended. Don't drink anything that looks or tastes odd.
Sober sex is safer and sexier!